Sunday, July 27, 2008

Love And Lust

Yesterday I was talking to one of my friend and we had conservation about lust and love. She told it is not that easy to fall in love, actually it never happens the way that people think. Most of the time it is all based on lust because couples will never hurt each other if they really love each other. Though I kind of agree with her at this point, but it was hard enough to admit. Actually I’m a firm believer of love at first sight and finding a soul mate. I thought she must be having a bad experience previously, then I questioned about her past experience in relationships.

According to my point of view bad experiences can mold a person's behavior and its true in her case. She told me about her relationship and I noticed she had it really very bad. And now she doesn't believe in love anymore because her past boyfriend treated her badly. She doesn't want to get hurt again. Then I was trying to convince her that all are not the same there is true love that exist. You will defiantly get some one who will really love you the way you want and at that time you will laugh at the past bad experiences. There are plenty of fish in the sea and that she should take it as an experience so you won't make the same mistake again.

But I think, though people like her had bad experiences in relationships, they should never give up on love. Though it's easier said than done, right? Actually love is something that happens on its own, you never know when you will get the person you are seeking for. So if you will keep the dark cloud of bad experience in your heart, it will just block every opportunity to be loved. Life has to go on, so its better to start afresh always.